First, let me start off by saying that I am in no way the authority of what a real man should be because
I think that I am a saint. Each and every day I learn something new about life, or even a new way of thinking.
One thing I have definitely learnt over the past year is that life will humble you. It humbles all of us at one time or another, which is something that we either embrace, or we fight. Nonetheless, If we resist, and we’re never humbled by ‘these moments’, we’ll never learn.
Marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them and their children, their in-laws and themselves.
In African, marriage is referred to the laying-off of a parent’s responsibilities on their over grown male child to a woman who is ready to take over, in some cases; not ready.
A 2005 study showed that staying in an unsatisfying marriage may raise stress and worsen health. Another study showed that people in close yet negative relationships are more likely to get heart disease.
That doesn't prove that a good marriage makes you healthy or that a bad marriage makes you sick. But there's no question -- a bad marriage isn't good for you.
lets make an instance together: when you buy a crate of eggs to prepare dinner, then you find out that the first 10 eggs you broke were bad, what would you term the others to be?
.....that's for you to answer.
(4) Once an African woman begins to earn good cash, she automatically becomes the one to pay the children bills.
NB: Men can go any length to get a good successful woman as a wife.
It becomes worrisome that in this 21st century most African women live in this ill and forsaking union hidden under the canopy of marriage.
let me take you through a behavioral collection of African men .
(1) Norms and traditions has made our women slaves to the men they are betrothed to;
Doing the domestic works at home is an obligation and the responsibility of a woman.
....there is barely no African man that has not made this statement.
(2) An African man who has not cheated on his wife is a learner who is waiting for an opportunity to unleash the dragon ….98% of African men cheat on their wives.
(3) African men have no Respect for their family, most especially their wives
It becomes worrisome that in this 21st century most African women live in this ill and forsaking union hidden under the canopy of marriage.
let me take you through a behavioral collection of African men .
(1) Norms and traditions has made our women slaves to the men they are betrothed to;
Doing the domestic works at home is an obligation and the responsibility of a woman.
....there is barely no African man that has not made this statement.
(2) An African man who has not cheated on his wife is a learner who is waiting for an opportunity to unleash the dragon ….98% of African men cheat on their wives.
(3) African men have no Respect for their family, most especially their wives
Respect is a virtue only the elderly deserve, so therefore, Men has no reason showing respect.
.......so funny.
(4) Once an African woman begins to earn good cash, she automatically becomes the one to pay the children bills.
................that's is if her husband allowed her to work.
(5) When an African man buys a gift for his wife, he would expect her to mop his feet every morning.
(5) When an African man buys a gift for his wife, he would expect her to mop his feet every morning.
.........when they do this for their mistresses, they become good boys.
(6) When an African man pays the bills, his wife's personal needs automatically becomes her business.
(7) It is an African man’s right to have chains of wives.
(6) When an African man pays the bills, his wife's personal needs automatically becomes her business.
(7) It is an African man’s right to have chains of wives.
.......laughable
(8) An African man can never be at fault.
(8) An African man can never be at fault.
............the woman is always to blame. even if they say “sorry”, it is only because they are tired of the troubles not because they are really sorry.
(9) When an African man cheats, he is called the master of the house, but when a woman does same, she becomes the bad egg.
(10) Most African men are not committed to the vows they made on the altar of God or wherever.
No matter how long a couple has been married, commitment may be the most effective tool good marriages use in battling bad things. So you see why African men are always trapped by other women outside? -they are never committed
(9) When an African man cheats, he is called the master of the house, but when a woman does same, she becomes the bad egg.
(10) Most African men are not committed to the vows they made on the altar of God or wherever.
No matter how long a couple has been married, commitment may be the most effective tool good marriages use in battling bad things. So you see why African men are always trapped by other women outside? -they are never committed
like i said at the beginning of this message, there are a million reasons why a man is not deserving of a woman's love?
I wouldn't go down to the part where African men are always aggressive, only a few them still got their assertive sense of communication in place.
I wouldn't go down to the part where African men are always aggressive, only a few them still got their assertive sense of communication in place.
Now, tell me why a good woman should be a slave in other to show her husband that she loves him?
Without healthy women, our children are in great danger, therefore the future of our Nation will also be in bad hands.
Good healthy women raise worthy future leaders.
this is where i drop my pen.
Written by: Ithenumah Emmanuel
Written by: Ithenumah Emmanuel
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